# How should I view my opponent in competition? Be thankful they are there - without opponents, there is no competition. Do not hate them or view them as enemies. They have not done anything bad to you; you actually need them. Too much aggression blinds you in the fight and makes you wedded to a particular plan. Be competitive but not personal. W... **[Read full answer on BJJ Notes](https://www.bjjnotes.app/knowledge-base/how-should-i-view-my-opponent-in-competition)** --- **Tags:** competition, mental-game, etiquette **Source:** [BJJ Notes Knowledge Base](https://www.bjjnotes.app/knowledge-base/how-should-i-view-my-opponent-in-competition)