# My child wants to quit BJJ - what should I do?

First, understand why. Is it temporary frustration or genuine disinterest? Sometimes pushing through builds character; other times forcing it creates resentment. Talk to the instructor. Consider a short break. Ultimately, forcing a child to continue something they hate is counterproductive.

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**Tags:** kids, mental-game

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